2010年1月24日日曜日

Being thrifty (Part 1)

Lily, if you're out there reading I would really love to hear your opinion on all this!!

Let me just start off by saying here that it has taken a lot of time (years!) and effort to get the food budget to where it is now. If you told me what we spend now way back when we first got married I would have laughed and said it was impossible. I mean we used to spend over 10,000 yen a week on groceries when it was just the two of us!

That was only until I found out about 家計簿, which I have posted about before here and here, and read the stories in the magazine that came with it. I realised that we were spending way too much and that there were LOTS of 主婦 out there with 2 or 3 kids spending less and eating a lot better (and bigger size!) meals than we were doing at the time. Anyone interested should check out magazines like おはよう奥さん or サンキュ. You can see that they do articles on this kind of thing every month, and the people spend a lot less than what I do!!! 50 yen or 100 yen おかず, how to freeze properly, how to feed 4 people dinner with just 500 yen, and other mind boggling figures!lol

So obviously I can't compete with them, and I just do my own thing, but occasionally I get out some of the menu books and freezing techniques and 使い切り ideas that have come with magazines in the past, and put them to use!

Due to popular demand, our meals are usually Japanese style, a bit like a 定食 I guess. There is usually a main dish (some type of meat or fish with veges), and usually (but not always!) 2 subs (more vege dishes and other things like tofu), rice, pickles (たくあん, 梅干し and 高菜 are popular with B at the moment), and some kind of soup (usually miso). B and S nearly always finish off with 納豆 (nattou) or たまごかけごはん which I don't class as a sub (only cause I don't eat it!). Noone ever goes hungry, and that's the most important thing!! Most things are made from scratch, although I do cheat sometimes!lol I try to eat a little of a lot, and I also like using lots of different ingredients at the one meal.

Most of the things I'm going to list here are pretty much second nature for me now, but I guess they could seem a bit overwhelming if you've never tried to reduce spending before. Please keep in mind that generally speaking fruit and veges are dirt cheap where we live, and are no comparison for the price I was paying for them when we lived in Shizuoka.

So things I try to do, a lot of them just common sense:



  • Don't overbuy. Usually I check the fridge and cupboards before going shopping and write a list of what I need.


  • Before setting foot out the door I check the net for チラシ details, and decide which supermarket best suits my needs for that day. There is a great site here where you just put in your post code and heaps of pamphlets come up for your area.


  • Buy frozen things on half price day (I use the site above to check out when the sales are on). Generally speaking I don't buy too much frozen stuff, but I do buy 和風野菜ミックス and 餃子(for the times I can't be bothered making them from scratch).


  • Use point cards. I also find things to be a lot cheaper on the days that they have triple point days. So pay less, and get more points than usual. Win win situation!lol


  • Use private brand things. Curry roux and juice I buy from 7-11 (the curries they sell are made by House and S&B by the way, and taste better than the 'real' stuff if you ask me!), tomato sauce or canned tomatoes I use supermarket own brands.


  • I have a general idea in my head of what I buy, and where.


  • I buy milk, bread, cheese, yoghurt and nappies at Cosmos (a drugstore but they sell food too, ice cream is always 30% off, frozen stuff is always at least 40% off), a 5 minute walk away.


  • I buy fresh veges mainly from a 直売 place also 5 minutes walk away, a bit like a 道の駅 I guess. Just to give you an idea, you can buy a HUGE thing of spinach for between 80-100 yen. The supermarket which is next door (while not that expensive) would be at least double for the same size. Or 大根 for about 100 yen. I got half a 白菜 the other day for 70 yen, about 12 small mikans for 220 yen, and things like ネギ are usually between 90-120 yen, but the sizes seem to be more generous than other stores.


  • I buy carrots (and usually onions and potatoes too) in bulk from a different supermarket about 10 minutes away by car, and then peel all the carrots, cut them in different shapes and sizes, half cook them in the microwave and then freeze them all. I pay 19 yen per 100g for the carrots, so if you do the math 190yen for 1 kg, as opposed to say 150 yen for 3 carrots which is how they're sold everywhere else.


  • Think about and write out meal plans (not all the time though)


  • Use the delivery shopping people which although a little more expensive in general, stops me from just buying stuff on a whim like I might do if I was at the supermarket, and also makes me plan meals better.


  • I have a price in my head of what I think something should cost, and if it's more than that I think twice about whether or not I really need to buy it that day, or whether I can wait another day or two, and then be flexible about it. Maybe it's not such a good example, but just say I want to buy tofu for a nabe. I know I can buy a 3 pack of 豆腐 more often than not for around 100 yen (from a local maker that I like), but sometimes it might have gone up to 140-150 yen, so I'd skip the 豆腐 that day and check out the prices of 厚揚げ (atsuage) or something instead. It's still 豆腐, just a different kind. Either can be used in the nabe.


  • I haven't really found anywhere that sells meat cheaper if you buy in bulk, but if it's on sale I usually buy 1kg or so of whatever it is and freeze it when I get home. If meat is marked down and looks ok, I would buy it and freeze it as soon as I got home too.


  • Also I check the marked down sections for fruit, veges and dairy at the supermarket and if there's something there I was planning on using that night then I would buy it. It really depends on the supermarket though, sometimes I wouldn't poke what's in there with a stick!lol That said, there's one supermarket who has their dairy marked down, and ham and things too, even when there's still a long time before the use-by date. It's a 24 hour store, so I guess they just have a lot of stock. But I never buy marked down veges there. I have a different supermarket up my sleeve for that!lol


  • I use a discount store to buy dry groceries. Things like packs of udon, furikake, nori, sauces, sugar, tea and lots of other things. There is a MaxValu supermarket next to the store I go to, but the discount store sells the exact same products a LOT cheaper. Like the furikake is 220 yen at the supermarket but 170 yen at the discount store. That's 50 yen on something that is only a little over 200 yen in the first place! So it all adds up. Seriously, it does.


  • I also buy things made locally. I always buy hotcake mix, flour, tofu, nattou, udon, and pickles from Kumamoto makers (mainly because I like the taste, but also because that's what is mainly sold at the supermarket).


  • To be honest though, I try not to buy things for the sole reason that it's the cheapest. Or because it's on sale. It's only any good to me if it's on sale and it's something I need.


  • And lastly, some things I won't budge on, no matter what the price is. I buy what I consider to be relatively good eggs, I check labels, try to pick things which don't use preservatives, and just try to be sensible about things.



Wow that turned into an epic post!
Maybe I don't need a Part 2 afterall!lol

2010年1月23日土曜日

The most challenging item

Just kind of thinking out loud (?) here.

I guess the biggest challenge will be getting the food budget down to 6,000 yen every week. No surprises there!lol This figure doesn't include rice or S's lunch btw. Well it includes 弁当 but that's not something he takes every day.

What with wanting 4 kids and everything this is something I HAVE to do!!! Especially since I'm not working and S's salary is up and down like a yo-yo.

I just checked my 家計簿 from last year and it seems we averaged about 6,800 yen per week, so I'm thinking maybe 6,000 yen is doable. Despite there being 2 kids who eat like horses and milk and bread consumption increasing daily, that average is actually the lowest out of all the years I've had my 家計簿. Go figure. So I guess I'm up for the challenge.lol Might take a while for me to get there but I'll see how I go.

So how should I go about lowering it?

Thinking, thinking.....

Ok, buying a breadmaker could be a good option here.
And a cow!lol

And maybe weighing up if it's cheaper to buy something readymade than to make it myself. I haven't looked into this too much yet, but I have noticed this to be true for some things that I buy from the supermarket delivery people. Like they sell readymade ハンバーグ, 4 in a pack (400g) for 398 yen. This price hasn't changed in the year I've been using the service, it's kind of like their 目玉商品. The mince is good mince (how do I know? It's 70% Aussie beef, so of course it's good!lol and 30% pork) but the thing is they sell the same mince for between 140-170 yen per 100g, and the cheapest it ever gets is 100 yen per 100g, but it's not that price very often. So it works out cheaper to just buy the ハンバーグ readymade. And they taste good!

The same can be said for some of the 和風 salads they sell too. By the time you bought everything and actually made it it's quite possibly not worth the trouble!

On the other hand, a lot of other things work out way cheaper to make yourself.
Dressings and sauces especially. Maybe I should try looking for more sauce recipes. Anyone know how to make 焼き肉のたれ?

And making enough at dinner time so I have leftovers for lunch for the kids and I as well as S's 弁当. I do this occasionally but could do it a lot more often if I put my mind to it I guess. When there are leftovers there's usually enough for a 弁当 and that's it. Or when there's more leftover I skip the 弁当 and the kids and I eat whatever it is for lunch.

What else?

Buy things that are in season.
Freeze some meals for when I can't be bothered cooking.

Ok, I've run out of ideas!!
Any suggestions?

2010年1月22日金曜日

Comment verification

It seems there's been some trouble with people posting comments so I've turned off the verification thing. Hope that fixes the problem!!

101 things in 1001 days

Thanks to Lulu and others for this idea.
Anyone else want to give it a go too?

I'm going to start from the beginning of February, and I'm not 100% sure if this will be the final line-up but it will be something pretty close.

Start date February 1st, 2010. Finish date October 28th, 2012
The Mission:
Complete 101 preset tasks in a period of 1001 days.

The Criteria:
Tasks must be specific (ie. no ambiguity in the wording) with a result that is either measurable or clearly defined. Tasks must also be realistic and stretching (ie. represent some amount of work on my part).

Why 1001 Days?
Many people have created lists in the past - frequently simple goals such as New Year’s resolutions. The key to beating procrastination is to set a deadline that is realistic. 1001 Days (about 2.75 years) is a better period of time than a year, because it allows you several seasons to complete the tasks, which is better for organising and timing some tasks such as overseas trips or outdoor activities.

Blue means completed, italics means in progress.
Items are in no particular order.


KIDS AND FAMILY

1. Make a baby scrapbook for B for the first 2 years of his life.
2. Make a baby scrapbook for A for the first 2 years of her life.
3. Backup (with the help of S) all photos once a month. (0/32)
4. Get pregnant with Baby Number 3.
5. Have baby Number 3.
6. Breastfeed Baby Number 3 for at least a year or until they wish to stop (whichever comes first).
7. Get pregnant with Baby Number 4 (this will of course depend on the timing of Number 3 though).
8. Take the kids home to Australia at least once.
9. Find a pre-school for B from April 2011.
10. Read one book a day to the kids. If I can't do it get S to. (30/1001)
11. Get a passport for Baby Number 3.
12. Tell S and the kids I love them every single day (30/1001)
13. Send at least one pic of each of the kids to my parents once a month. (1/32)
14. Take the kids to the park at least once a week (without S) for 50 weeks (0/50)
15. Make a photo album for both kids (different from the baby books) (0/2)
16. Take the kids to the zoo at least 4 times.(0/4)
17. Take the kids to an aquarium at least once.
18. Do something for every anniversary (1/3)
19. Go somewhere overnight with S without the kids (this has NEVER happened btw!)lol
20. Go on a date with S once every 6 months without the kids (this has never happened either).

COOKING

21. Make a recipe book.
22. Write 30 posts on my blog to do with food. (3/30)
23. Make a meal with my husband once a month. (0/32)
24. Learn how to make something with pastry.
25. Try to make 梅干し.
26. Make a 弁当 for the family and go on a picnic 3 times, complete with plastic sheet and drink bottles (0/3)
27. Make a 弁当 for S at least 8 times a month (except when I'm pregnant). (1/32)
28. Find a recipe that everyone agrees will become our family 唐揚げ (karaage) recipe.
29. Enjoy a cup of herbal or flavoured tea at least once a week for 6 months. (1/6months 4/24 weeks)
30. Try 80 new recipes. (6/80)

31. Learn how to use some of the other functions that are on my oven.
32. Make a Western type meal at least once a month. (1/32)
33. Find a good recipe for chocolate fudge brownies.
34. Learn more about at least 5 different types of tea, how to brew it, and of course taste test them all. (0/5)
35. Make tempura (which surprisingly enough I have never bothered to make myself)

JAPAN/TRAVEL

36. Visit 10 new places in Kyushu. (1/10)
37. Visit 3 prefectures I haven't been to before. (0/3)
38. Visit 10 shrines or temples I haven't been to before. (0/10)
39. Travel to a new country at least once.
40. Take a small trip overseas (somewhere I've been before but S hasn't been) at least once, thinking Taiwan at the moment.
41. Take a trip to Okinawa.
42. Go to a private onsen with S and the kids at least once every 2 months (excluding months which should be avoided when pregnant) (1/16)
43. Research and drive (by myself) the kids to a park they've never been to before at least 3 times. (0/3)
44. Go and stay at a ryokan at least twice. (0/2)
45. Go and stay with S's cousin and her kids for a couple of days.
46. Get S's cousin and her kids to stay with us for a couple of days.

HEALTH/FITNESS/HOBBIES

47. Get back into yoga. Do a 45 minute session at least once a month for 6 months. (0/6)
48. Read a book about aromatherapy (something online is also ok).
49. Learn how to sew something simple.
50. Sew most things B will need for kindy when he starts going.
51. Start a herb garden.
52. Write in my blog every day for a month
53. Get a professional massage at least once.
54. Become better at giving myself angel card readings.
55. Go to the movies at least twice a year (0/3)
56. Listen to music for at least 30 minutes 4 times a month (1/32 months 5/128 times)
57. Read or reread 4 books in English (0/4)

DURING PREGNANCY

58. Do not insist on doing all household chores.
59. Leave dirty dishes in the sink for S to wash up if I feel it's a strain.
60. Do not feel guilty when I can't cook, and use delivery services.
61. Drink at least 1.5L of water every day while pregnant (no more kidney stones while pregnant for me thanks!lol)
62. Accept all help that is offered during this time.
63. Ask for help even if I think I don't need it.

PURCHASES

64. Buy a breadmaker.
65. Buy a new fridge.
66. Buy double bunks (or possibly double bunks with a trundle bed).
67. Buy a sewing machine.
68. Buy another! car seat.
69. Buy a new tv before 地デジ starts(our tv now is smaller than the computer screen!).

MONEY AND SAVINGS

70. Do and send off our tax returns before the end of February every year. (1/3)
71. Continue with my 家計簿 every month. (1/32)
72. Make a bank book in each child's name.
73. Use this bank book to make an education fund, depositing at least 10,000 yen per child per month.
74. Find out about kiddy insurance and join up B and A.
75. Pay back N the key money for our apartment through English lessons.
76. Get our weekly shopping (groceries only) down to 6000 yen. Adjust to 8000 yen while pregnant and for the first couple of months after giving birth.
77. Update the weekly shopping budget for groceries when baby number 3 starts on solids.
78. Completely pay off the car loan.
79. Put at least 5000 yen away per month for a travel fund. (1/32)


EVENTS

80. Have a proper ひな祭り meal for A every March. (0/3)
81. Do 七五三 for both B and A in November, 2011.
82. Get a professional family photo done for 七五三.
83. Take a family Christmas photo (0/2)
84. Go and do お宮参り and professional photos for Baby Number 3.

AROUND THE HOUSE

85. Make a scratching post for the cat (with S).
86. Organise the balcony so it's exactly how I want it.
87. Organise the kids room so it's easy to clean and keep (relatively!) tidy.
88. Do something about the 押し入れ in our bedroom.
89. Get rid of anything we don't use and is still unpacked after 6 months.
90. Go through all clothes and donate to charity or recycle anything we don't need.

OTHER

91. Start making 年賀状 at the beginning of December every year.
92. File all received 年賀状 by the end of January every year (February for 2010)(0/3)
93. Update how the list is going on my blog at least 6 times (1/6)
94. Change the address on my drivers license.
95. Change the address on the remainder of the bank books.
96. Change the printed address on A's ひまわりカード (the computer record has already been changed)
97. Talk to a complete stranger.
98. Wear a dress or skirt out somewhere at least once.
99. Get regular dental checks, thinking once every 6 months (0/5)
100. Continue to lend money on Kiva whenever the credit balance is enough to do so. Note: Started with 6 loans as at January, 2010.
101. Donate 500 yen to Kiva for every unfinished task at the end of this challenge.

Getting to thinking

Still trying to come up with things for the 1001 days challenge.
Have about 20 left to go so should be posting about that soon.

It's really getting me to think though, and focus a bit more on myself which I can safely say has not been done since I was pregnant with B. I think the list would have been a LOT longer a lot quicker if I'd tried this before having kids. Just being honest here.

Trying to be realistic is quite challenging. Especially for things to do with travel and hobbies. I know the challenges are for me and me only, but I mean seriously, can going to the movies twice a year be counted as a challenge? A long time ago a challenge would have been to go once a week!! Or read at least 4 books (before the end of the challenge), as opposed to read a book a week. Btw I don't think I have even read a book since B was born!!! How sad is that? Especially coming from a bookworm with the bad eyes to prove it! And the only movies I've been to see are Anpanman and Pokemon!! (that's 2 movies in 3 years 3 months). So as you can imagine I've been having lots of did I just write that? moments.lol

Of course there are many new challenges too, lots of them kid-related, and it's been interesting comparing the pre-kids me and the me that I am now.

And on a totally unrelated note, I woke up this morning thinking it was Saturday. Last night I remember thinking "oh that's good no ゴミ needs to be sorted tonight because there's no collection tomorrow". Didn't even realise today was Friday til I saw my post from yesterday. Oops. Which means all the smelly ゴミ can't be thrown out for a few more days. Bugger.

2010年1月21日木曜日

Things I love Thursday

Things I am loving this week:

  • A's はい turning into a はい、どうぞ which sounds like hai, doujo!lol
  • B's アンパンチ、アンキック、バイキンパンチ、バイバイキーン (things Anpanman and Baikinman say in the anime) which he says without fail before going to bed every night
  • Writing here on my blog
  • Computer time for me when the kids are watching Anpanman
  • チキン南蛮 which I made the other day and would have to be my favourite dish ever
  • A day at the zoo last Sunday
  • No kiddie escapes or lockouts this week

2010年1月20日水曜日

Not so Wordless Wednesday

Thanks for the blogging advice.
I think I might try out some of the days of the week themes, and also do the 101 things in 1000 days that went around a while ago. If anyone has any other meme things they enjoyed reading or doing, I'd love to hear what they were.

I don't really want to make a habit of putting my kid's pics up here (just for privacy reasons mainly), but I'm going to make an exception for today. I think these photos sum up my kids really well, and it's not often I get a good shot of either of them so bear with my 親バカness here please!!lol

A being her usual happy self.



B all dressed up in S's old clothes that were about to be thrown in the recyclable ゴミ.